Sex on the first date ⇐ Pick Up

[Anonymous]

Good day! I haven't been here for a long time. In short, I did a lot of work on myself: I FOUND a good JOB, and, as a result of this, I upgraded my style, hairstyle (I became obsessed with styling), bought a good perfume, and, most importantly, became self-confident. That works out to one date a week for now. I began to communicate confidently, I don’t throw obvious questions, but I try to catch on to some little thing and develop the conversation through this.
So, I go on dates, girls are good at kinesthetics (I take your hand, hug), they allow you to kiss on the cheeks (but for some reason they are against it on the lips on the first date). A question. How to do the removal? On the first date. At the end of the meeting, I invite the girls to go to a quieter place, drink wine, watch a movie, and just have a nice chat. Not a word about sex. But so far I have come across girls who say that they are against sex on the first date. Is it true that not all girls are ready for sex on the first date? Or is it that I didn't try hard enough and they don't want sex with me? The girls note that they like me in appearance, that I am a pleasant person.