Met a girl on social media, she's 22, I'm 25, general university. She rarely answered messages, once a day, but very detailed, she asked her questions. We discussed common interests in art and on this we came to a date. The interest was mutual, they joked a lot "on the same wavelength" and so on. The date itself was excellent, we talked enthusiastically in a cafe, looked into each other's eyes and smiled. She also made her eyes. Before parting, they discussed a sketch of the second date, she supported the idea and added a couple of jokes to the topic of communication. An hour later, he asked if he had made it home. she answered yes and said everything was fine. After a couple of minutes, I just added a message to the unfinished topic on a date, about the book under discussion. And then there was already a long ignore. I myself decided to calm down, but then, after all, without waiting for her answer, a day later I sent a compliment with a penny. She only responded the very next day with short but generally positive messages. I paused again and asked for a second date. She has now been unresponsive for 1.5 days.
I would like to highlight a number of unusual details on her:
!) Specially arranged for a certain time with her. He said that he wanted to show her something (for this he had to come at the agreed time). Instead, she was a bit late and didn't apologize.
2) Periodically, when I tried to talk about some male interests like "and here we are at work. ..." or "what a cool car worth ....", she showed a strange displeasure - she rolled her eyes, "Oh, God" and so on. At the same time, we talked about general topics non-stop and with emotions
3) Treated me in a cafe - didn't thank me. I do not feel sorry for the money, but it is strange, at least always people want to present themselves as very polite and well-mannered. She was no exception, but it seemed like she wanted to hurt at times. Well I've never seen this
4) In social networks, I saw a number of posts or stories from her with jokes with quotes like "all the men ran away from me " and "find a normal guy".
5) She obviously has a complex about her height, she came in high heels. Tried to be a very confident girl.
I'll try to guess about my spaces:
1) Periodically stared at her, she was still in a dress. There is a feeling that it could scare, but I didn’t notice this live.
2) I overdid it on emotions, showed her that she liked it
3) I touched her a little, although she most likely gave a signal to approach - she grabbed my forearm when she allegedly caught hairpin. But somehow I really don't want to touch it quickly.
4) it was necessary to lie low right away and not write a complex compliment. One way or another, he showed that he had a crush and was waiting for attention
5) Tried too hard to impress her, even though she was already impressed Is everything already lost here? What did I do wrong and what is she?
Ignore after first date ⇐ Pick Up
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