Lack of orgasm in wife ⇐ General

[Anonymous]

Hello, such a problem.
My wife and I met eight years ago.
She’s a virgin, I’m not particularly experienced either, there were a couple of women and that’s it.
Then they got married. Our roots are Caucasian, now I’m 29 and my wife is 27.
The wedding night didn’t go very well.
It was terribly dry. Although I caressed her, I was apparently worried. The lubricant from the pharmacy helped solve the problem. Eight years have passed, I understand that my wife has never experienced an orgasm, I do not see her desire or lust on her part. She says that she masturbated and ended up squirting twice, I really doubt her words, I think she’s saying this so that I calm down and don’t pester her with orgasms.. I’m very worried, I’m afraid of the destruction of the marriage. After all, marriage is not only about love and harmonious intimate relationships and the satisfaction of both.
Cuni, relaxing massage, kind words, tried everything.
I bought a vibrator thinking maybe it would help her, but it was of no use.
I don’t know what to do anymore.
I gave her a yoni massage, managed to relax her, saw how her clitoris swelled, but then there was no result.
I bought her expensive vitamins to increase libido, also of no use.
I can certainly live without her orgasm.
But I really want her to feel this pleasure too, to go limp. But unfortunately I can only dream about it. I’m starting to think that I’m zero in sex, I’m very upset.