Lack of experience in dealing with an unapproachable woman ⇐ Pick Up

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Hi all.
Lack of experience in dealing with an unapproachable woman. Brief story. M/F - 40. After the divorce, I hit all the hard stuff, everything is easy, the girls are responsive, joyful, accessible, but not damn interesting, except for sex, there are very few intersections for me. I met someone who is interesting, self-sufficient, has bright dates, etc. there were 4 dates. But there is another problem - where I feel insecure. No experience in this situation. F is in the position that we need to get to know each other better, and so on. for physical proximity. She is active, calls, writes, etc., but there are no physical manifestations on her part. intimacy, although my hands are not removed when I hug her, etc. I think she probably had a negative experience somewhere, and that’s why she’s afraid. Although he admits that I convey calmness, confidence and lightness. But that's what everyone tells me) Gentlemen, this bothers me, but I don’t want to lose her. Although if this continues, we will have to grow apart. How to do the right thing to speed up the process and still remain calm, confident and at ease.