Got cold a week before the meeting ⇐ Pick Up

[Anonymous]

I'm from St. Petersburg, a girl from Tyumen. I’m 28, she’s 24. We met in an online game, after a few days of communication, conversations began on intimate topics, and we engaged in virt a couple of times. She invited me to her place, wrote almost every day that she wanted me, etc. I bought tickets for the appointed date for the weekend 20 days in advance. A week before my arrival, I cooled off in terms of intimate conversations, but at the same time I actively wrote myself on various topics. The day before my arrival I decided to find out if everything was okay - she said yes, a lot of work the last week.

I flew to Tyumen, when we met, I wanted to hug her, she somehow turned her body strangely, and even a friendly hug did not work out. We went to a restaurant, walked around, communication went well. When we went to her house, he suggested we go buy some wine, she said she didn’t want to drink. In her apartment he began to gently touch her, spinning around. They lay down on the bed to choose to order something to eat, I lay down next to her and said: “don’t pester me.” We slept in different rooms, the next day, when I asked what we would do today, I said I want to buy wine and have sex with you, to which she replied some other time, after that I exchanged the ticket and flew to my home after 3 hours. I told her that I didn’t want to waste time on a girl who was so changeable in her communication.

I want to hear ideas about where I made a mistake or how I could have handled the situation differently.