Cold kept woman ⇐ Pick Up

[Guest]

Guys, good afternoon

I have never come across this type of woman. Although, it would seem, has seen a lot.

Me: 30, own business, everything is there. I didn’t want a relationship, there is a lady 8 years younger for comfort and buzz, we do what we want. In short, I live and think about nothing.

She: 24, beautiful, sexy, well-groomed. The chest, lips are made, he takes care of himself. Itself from the region (Urals). There are hobbies, madam is not boring.
So, I was at the working moment in the capital (I myself was 3-4 hours away from it). I met her near the City. Joke after joke, we exchanged contacts. I left home, she also left (to her place in the Urals) to visit her parents for a week. Communicated little (I do not like these correspondence). During the time she was with her parents, I ordered flowers. Arrived and saw each other the next day. Until that day, we talked a couple of times in the spirit of "hello, what are you doing." Half a day before the trip, I asked her what time it would be convenient for me to meet, if I needed to eat, etc., there was some kind of interest. I have no head in the clouds, after lunch I immediately went on the attack and specific questions. Now the gist:

The lady is most attractive. From feet to ears there is a charm (he attracted me), I want her. Several years in Moscow. Two of them she is there alone, without a relationship. He says that they got modern acquaintances, that on the second date they speak for lightness, grandmas and sex. At such moments, she is extinguished and does not communicate with such people. As I understand it, she has the principle "not to give on the first date". Perhaps, on such falls, xs. The point is. Two years before that, there was a relationship with the type who supported her, she fell in love, wanted a wedding, and he said she was free. What now - get to know her a lot. I'm shocked that they even roll up to such people in the subway and they answer. Gifts are given and not a few, from Dyson to expensive trips somewhere. But in the end, she is still alone, perhaps there is no chemistry or they do not cling. Showed a couple of correspondence with strange and obsessive types.

What is the result: In the process, there is a coldness (there is no reaction to many things in the dialogue), a feeling that she does not know how to behave in relationships or with people she likes and does not want to sleep with her on 1 date. So to say break the stereotype. A couple of days later I came to Moscow for work. We saw each other, chatted, hugged, walked by the hand (like children, it’s funny to yourself) there was tactility. On the first day, I told her that a relationship in the spirit of I gave her loot, but I have the same thing - they don’t suit me, there is one who gives with a minimum of spending.

subtotal: Her charm does not let me go. In appearance, another loot-loving madam. By communication, she is looking for a relationship and got burned, but all these emotions are inside her. The last meeting seemed to kindle her. We communicate, throw vidos and pictures of what he does, how he goes to the gym, etc.

Question: What is the probability that the idea is stupid and still wants the dough for communication? And second, is there any guide on how to fire up cold girls?

Thank you )