Disappointment due to another nationality ⇐ Pick Up

[Anonymous]

Hello everyone, the situation is as follows.

I am 24, good income, good connections in the city, a very well-known personality in narrow circles, not Azerbaijani

OGP 22 years old, good full family, Azerbaijani, well-rounded financially, got on the map both in terms of communication and appearance. Azerbaijani.

Backstory, I accidentally came across it on Instagram, rang through a friend’s number, sent a bouquet with contacts as a gift, wrote to her. Then, after communication, he flew away into an emergency because of one trifle, not relevant to the matter. I scored after that, after 4 days I took it out of the emergency, wrote it off myself, and called for a meeting.

Everyone met and had a blast; the communication lasted for about three days after the meeting and 3 days before the meeting. I hit her and it was obvious. Yesterday, due to my personal circumstances, I was not in touch for 10 hours, called 8 times, kicked the cabinet at home until I hurt my leg, when I got in touch, I was met with a fierce D from her.

They hushed it up, offered to see each other - invited me to drink tea at my work in the studio. We met for the second time today, everything was great, the dynamics after the first meeting were obvious. And then, 3 hours after the meeting, the crunch begins.

In short, nationality is very important to her and she apologizes for giving hope, for her it is precisely Azeris with Azeris and so on that is important. At first it all sounded like a cheap excuse to get dumped for some other reason. He records voicemails all on the same topic, ala, even if you somehow convince your parents, then I’m still against it, supposedly from a different nationality. Plus, by the way, she's still a virgin.

Well, in general, she convinced me that it was really her, some kind of Tmutarakan cockroaches, and not a drain for some other reason. She is also afraid that I will tell her father something there, that I will meet him and other nonsense.

On my own behalf, I naturally told her gradually throughout the entire dialogue that I am a grown man, if she doesn’t push the needle herself, I will calmly sort out this whole movement according to their own concepts and explain to everyone, from her dad to her uncles, what why and why in this is how this life is. That she’s a card to me and supposedly she shouldn’t bother with bullshit, why did I hear that this is also important for her.

I called you to the last meeting tomorrow, I say, I want you to tell me all this to my face, I myself will give you my thoughts on this situation and that’s it, it’s all over the meeting.

In general, in short, the questions are, what went wrong, the girl initially wanted to pull a prank and chat in a friend’s frame, then she realized that she was attracted and falling in love, and with a defensive reaction she decided to dump me? I have a desire to put a gestalt on her so that she will remember me later when some Azerbaijani abzer is with her (she herself said that she couldn’t find a groom for herself because everyone forbade her anything, I told her that she wouldn’t find one among them ).

Or maybe it’s not even a gestalt, I want to somehow influence this firmware, to say that I liked it very much and you’re a fool getting a kick out of it, it’s a pity that because of some prejudices everything is going to shit. Well, after that, disconnect from communication, and then look. Do you think there is a chance for a comeback in this case or not?