A girl from another city. Online dating ⇐ Pick Up

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Hi all. I'm 29. In May, I tried online dating for the first time, and at once on the 3 most popular sites (deve, tindor and veka dating). The goal is to find relationships and love. During these 3 months I managed to meet live with about 15 people, everyone was adequate. After the first meetings, a couple of people merged themselves, the rest were ready to continue communication. On a personal level, no one came to me (I'm picky in appearance, it's hard to meet my type), so I continue to communicate with those with whom I want in a friendly format, with the rest I gently reduced communication to nothing.

Every quarter I go on vacation to Moscow for a couple of weeks. On an extreme trip, I decided to try to get acquainted with local girls - suddenly something interesting will come across. On the second day, one profile meets - and I understand that this is really my type. Right here is the best thing I have seen, among all those hundreds (and possibly thousands) of profiles that I shoveled for 2 months in my city. I put a super like, a day later reciprocity comes. Writing. As a result, several days pass, the end of the vacation comes and my departure - and the girl did not read the correspondence and did not even open the application anymore. It's annoying.

Upon returning from a trip to the city, I suddenly thought to look for her page in VK according to the data from the questionnaire - and I succeeded. Not immediately and with great difficulty. I wrote, explained who I was, correspondence began. At first everything went well, but then the girl suddenly announced that, they say, it was interesting to communicate with me, but she did not see the point in correspondence, since I was from another city. I argued and argued that it was not a problem for me to come after a while. She approved of this idea, but I was confused by the way the answer was: "Yes, let's get in touch when you decide to come here." This is where they stopped. Smells like plum. It was also embarrassing that the next day after our correspondence, she suddenly became active on СЗ (the chat remained and I see when she online) and goes there every day - you see, he is corresponding with someone else.
In general, I have a dilemma. I am ready to come there in 2 months specifically to meet this person, but for this I will need to plan my working hours and to some extent jump above my head (I am an ordinary office worker). But there is no certainty that the young lady will not merge during all this time or that someone will not intercept her during this period of time. Dating in my city, if anything, I do not stop. What do you think?