Second date rescheduling ⇐ Pick Up

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I'm 26 she's 27.
I decided to call in a cafe OZHP, which I often see at work. Previously, we only talked at work. Found in VK, page, access is limited, okay. I added, an hour later I was already friends. Answered the greeting the very next day. I decided not to start dialogues and invited me to meet, I agreed. I took her from home and we went to a cafe. The dialogue went well along the way. We started with work topics. In the cafe, they have already switched to whoever they like, mutual friends, etc. Sat opposite, I know a mistake, but not fatal. Further, they stood at her house for two hours. Started kinesthetic a bit. She reacted calmly. In parting, he offered to attend one event in four days. Agreed. A couple of times on the cheek goodbye and all. It lasted all 4 hours.
A day later they wrote off for nothing. There is no conversation at all here. Ignores for half a day. On the eve of the meeting, she merged under the pretext of helping a friend. He asked what alternative time she would offer and silence from her for three days. Then we talked a little, it turns out she finished LTR 4 months ago and doesn't want any relationship. Haven't let her go yet. Like, what for me to involve someone in my problems. I will be alone. And yet, he frightened her with his assertiveness. Although, I didn’t press and didn’t bother) It seems that I disposed of all this. She reacted positively to the proposal to meet again, but there is no time yet. I wrote after 5 days. Sick. The temperature is all business and there is no strength to go somewhere. The answers are monosyllabic and take half a day. Naturally, I don’t write, etc.
And now I don’t understand the leaks or the circumstances + breakage trams? What is the best way to do it?
Next don't suggest) Ozhp interesting. I'm not chasing quantity.