The girl gives once every 3 months ⇐ General

[Anonymous]

Hi all. This is already the thousandth topic on the forum about sex - where would we be without it?
I will try to talk about my problem in as much detail as possible, and if possible I also want to get as detailed an answer as possible exclusively from girls. I’m not interested in the opinion of men in this situation, since I’ve already heard a lot.
So, I won’t beat around the bush, I’ll immediately begin to describe the essence of the problem
My girlfriend and I practically never have sex. We’ve been together for over 6 years, I’m 25, she’s 24. We’ve been living together for 3 years. We moved from the provinces to Moscow together and live here in her apartment (gifted by her parents)
I’ll say right away that all expenses for our common life are solely my responsibility. groceries, CG, ordering food, pet expenses, and so on. she, in turn, spends money exclusively on herself. does not give me any gifts, even symbolic ones. everything is always tied to the holidays. I try to please her as much as possible, and always when I go out for groceries, on the way home I buy her a few kinders/a small bouquet of flowers/something to eat and so on. When I order something from ozone, I always ask if she needs something from there. I often take all sorts of things, bags and other women's things.
returning to the topic of sex.
she used to love sex very much and often initiated it. and we had sex wherever possible - in cinemas, shopping centers, in the car (half of the initiations were on her part, half on mine)
but after about a year and a half of living together, I noticed that she stopped initiating him at all. fully. I'm not exaggerating. It's been about a year and a half since she asked me to have sex for the last time. all the other times when we had sex were initiated only by me.
they argued with her many times on this topic, so many nerves and tears were spent, but nothing ever changes.
her main arguments are as follows: that her libido had allegedly dropped. She doesn’t want to solve this problem, she says that she “doesn’t give a fuck” about sex and she lives well without it. In response to my proposal to find a compromise, she refused to go, saying either we break up or live without sex at all. we broke up and got back together a month later, everything was fine for a week, but then the problem returned. but on her part, a compromise was proposed - if she does not want sex at the moment when I offer it to her, she will satisfy me in another way - simply by jerking off or giving a blowjob. it never came to a blowjob, oral sex left our intimate life back in the year 22 -oh, but she still jerked me off a couple of times. fucked up, at the age of 25 I am content with a dry handjob from a girl for whom I am ready to move mountains.
and now there will be brief abstracts to further understand the essence of the problem:
1. The girl doesn’t like me at all and doesn’t want to give me pleasure. If we have sex or she jerks me off, she does it as reluctantly as possible and wants it to end as quickly as possible.
2. from her words, she constantly feels bad. I work twice as much as she does, since I have 2 of my own businesses. I don’t have weekends as such, I can stay at work even until two in the morning, but still no matter how tired I am, I will come home and want her in any case. even if you haven’t slept for a day before. after a 7-hour working day, she constantly feels like an amoeba, although if someone calls her to go to a bar or hookah after work, she will fly out of the apartment like a bullet and fly to her friends.
3. she doesn't want to solve this problem. and doesn't consider it a problem at all. says that she is a “piece of meat” for me
4. Now I'm afraid to initiate sex myself. I always have a feeling of anxiety inside when I think about sex with her. even when I just lie down next to me I get a hard-on, if she notices this she immediately starts to get offended.
5. I endured it and I truly love her, I really want this problem to be solved, but it seems to me that it’s unlikely that anything will change.
6. We last had sex at the end of August (almost 2 months ago)
7. We tried to diversify our intimate life. toys/lubricants/various condoms and so on. With foreplay everything is fine too. I have no problems with hygiene.
Do you think there is a chance that her libido will miraculously return? What do you think about this situation in general?