Seducing a girl for three months. Playing long and making sense ⇐ Pick Up

[Anonymous]

Hello forum! I’m wondering: has anyone managed to seduce a girl after several months of communication (with long breaks between dates)? Does it make sense to be persistent with a girl with whom I enjoy communicating? Or is it just a waste of time?

Now to the point:

There is a girl with whom I have already gone on dates several times, but we do not actively correspond)

WMD - 33 years old. OGP - 23 years old (always active, participates in some productions, tutors, goes hiking , business trips) . Met on a dating app.

The following dates took place:

1. (July) We walked through the parks and talked. Kinesthetics did not work. I just pulled it across the road by the handle. Dropped me home. Nothing special. Positive. Then he suggested a second date, but she couldn’t for objective reasons and we agreed to write each other later, but I didn’t write (I had already met other girls).

2. (August) She asked me to ride a motorcycle. I went for a drive, then we walked around the parks, but I couldn’t hold the hand. I fed him a little in a cafe and dropped him off at home. He kissed me on the cheek. She thanked me profusely for this trip afterwards.

3.(October)I recorded a video and sent it to her (I was in a good mood). She answered. Invited her to the concert. We met nicely, sat nicely and talked a little after. Almost no kinesthetic ability.

Important: during this date they discussed dancing and her desire to start dancing, to which I said that I had also wanted to go dancing for a long time. We agreed that we would go to lessons.

He dropped me off at home and kissed me on the cheek.

4. (October)About a week later he found us dancing classes. We met and danced (kinesthetics within the framework of dancing are absolutely unlimited). Both were in a great mood. She was surprised that I organized everything and we actually went to the dance. Then we went and sat in a cafe almost until nightfall. There were many different discussions, I found a couple of similar views on life between us. He dropped me home and kissed me on the cheek.

In the course of communicating with her, I try to find out more about her (she talks less about her personal life). I talk about myself quite frankly (I don’t play the role of a macho, etc., I talk about my experiences).

We agreed that we would most likely go dancing together, and I also voiced several activities that she agreed to. Our next meeting will be at the end of the month.

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At the same time, Iopentold her at the last meeting that if we don’t succeed, I will understand everything and move on with my life.

By the way, I’m the only one paying for the entire cafe. The last time she gave me a can of soda)

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How I see the situation:

1. I gave up on our dates at the very beginning. If there was interest, then it could fade away from her.

2. Initially, I didn’t contact her. I’ve been in the friend zone for a long time, but she’s pleased to receive meetings and activities from me for which she doesn’t have to pay with sex yet)

3. She still has doubts. MB rightly thinks that I’m hanging out with women (since I disappeared) or are there simply girls who need to be seduced for a long time and get to know each other?

4. Again, I didn’t show persistence (I didn’t try to press the kiss, I didn’t press, I was nice).

Question:

Does it make sense to waste time on this girl or is this a typical friend zone (which was not announced to me)?

In general, can seduction occur when dates are rare?

Can I change the frame and seduce a girl if I constantly do something with her (walk, dance, invite) - become a loved one in some way? And she will reconsider her view of me. I have the resource for this.

Or is this all sluggish crap and a waste of time?



The reason why I want to hang out with her: I really like communicating with her and it’s interesting to get to know her better, her body (sorry).