Either the oil is wrong or the skis are not moving ⇐ Pick Up

[Anonymous]

At some point he separated from his wife, they lived together for 9 years, there were no children.

I decided to go on vacation to relax and unwind.

Then somehow, in between, I found myself at local parties and became involved with those who live here and came to rest. One is dumb and so I decided to find a girlfriend.

But it’s somehow unrealistically difficult, I’ve already been to a club, talked to everyone, had fun, danced - but the output is 0, yes, yes, but communication is going nowhere.

I’ve already gone to local, more appropriate parties, there are girls, I talked to them, it seems to work, but then it’s still 0, I wrote in messengers - also ignored or refused.

With 1 I managed to go for a walk, everything seemed to go well, but after 1-2 days - that’s it, stop.



I’m thinking that this is clearly not the case. I don’t seem to be old, I don’t seem to be completely ugly. I don’t understand whether the funnel is weak and there are few options or what. Why am I being dumped? They themselves are not interested in a guy on vacation?

I seem to be able to communicate, while I was married, of course there were others. There just aren't many options here. There are guys here, well, some are well over 60, some are not at all from this world, and there are clearly a limited number of guys here, that is, there are no crowds willing to stir things up.



How to unblock such a situation and still find someone?


Somehow I remember it was easier when I was young. I remember I just wrote to local chats - I was looking for someone to go out with, they wrote 2-3 times, in the evening we were already at my place. And this is not a vacation, but a city. Here, in theory, everything should be simpler. But it’s going unrealistically hard.