Sex with cousin ⇐ General

[Anonymous]

Hello, I'm a boy. I want to persuade my cousin to have a cupcake. I already proposed to her but she refused. Esli chto mne menshe 18 let, ey toje menshe. So we are both Muslims. But I convinced her that it was not a sin (I know that it is a sin, I just lied to her). She doesn't want to be with me because she's not ready or she's disgusted. Mne Trinacad let, and ey odinnacad let. In general, she’s not really squeamish about this topic, she just doesn’t want to do this with me.
So can anyone give competent advice on how to persuade her. If I’m going to deprive her of her virginity, I’m not going to, I want petting or blowjob (anal is also possible, but that’s enough). I also have condoms.
I ask you to help despite my age.