Relationship with your father, who had a similar experience? ⇐ General

[Anonymous]

I have been married for six months, and a couple of months ago I had a problem communicating with my father. When I come to visit, he behaves completely differently than he did before.
I began to notice that my father looked at me differently than before at his daughter. You can see how he glances and often lingers on my forms.
He is cautious around his mother or anyone else, but as soon as we are alone, he openly shows me his interest. Moreover, he even, as if on purpose, embarrasses me, makes me blush, I am lost, I don’t know how to behave with him. My father simply savors my confusion and feels like he is in control of the situation. Sometimes he starts asking about my family life and takes the conversation in a different direction, about our relationship with my husband, and makes inappropriate hints and jokes. When we meet and when I’m leaving, he tries to kiss me, if my mother is distracted, she kisses not just with a smack, but possessively, even with her tongue. In addition, he often seizes the moment and tries to hug me, cuddle, and despite my protests, he even squeezes me wherever possible. From everything that happens, I am constantly on edge. What is this? Does he want me as a man, a woman? Why is that? What happened to him, to us? If he is a pervert, then why not before, when I was free and living with them? Then he was a father to me, the best dad in the world. I don’t know how to talk to him about this, I tried to start, but he looks surprised and it turns out that everything seems to me, like I’m crazy and how could I think such a thing about him. I’m afraid to even think about what might come out of his fatherly love. You won’t tell your mother, and even more so your husband, about him, about him and me, how it will turn out, who will they believe, otherwise I’m like, I’m slandering things. Everything will collapse if I mention it, family, relationships, I can’t allow that.