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 One meeting, it doesn’t grow any further. What to do next? 35/29

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M35/Zh29. We met and picked up the phone. A couple of days later we called each other and agreed to meet. We sat in a cafe and had a good conversation. When we left, my friend said to me that she’s coming to see me right now, come and sit with us and drink champagne. OK. We sat at 3, drank, talked, then they got ready to go dancing (it was about 12 at night), she offered to go with them (she said - if you want). But I refused. I feel it already and I’ve drunk a lot and I’m not in the mood to dance. There was no resource at all. I left, there was a message from her - it was very nice to talk to you, write, call. Good night

A couple of days later I called to find out how things were going and suggested we meet the next day and go for a walk and drink coffee.
The next day we call each other - he says I can’t, I’m busy, my mother is sick. OK.

At the first meeting, she hinted that she wouldn’t mind going to some club on the weekend. I was planning to organize a table. On Thursday a message arrives - I won’t be able to on Saturday, they invited me to a birthday party, let’s do it next week. OK. (In fact, I thought it was even good. Otherwise, I somehow swam a little, I fantasized about it)

He didn’t call over the weekend, but finally dialed after 5 days and offered to meet on her weekend. In general, she doesn’t mind, but she doesn’t know for sure whether she can or not. We agreed that I would call that day and decide what to do.

Yesterday I called at 3 o'clock in the afternoon, I didn't answer. An SMS arrives - I’m busy right now, I’ll write later in the evening or not. Ok.
At 6 o'clock other plans were made, I think we need to make a decision already.
I called, didn't answer. A minute later he calls back and says, “things have piled up, it’s like a day off for me.” Well, I say, I’m calling to find out what’s going on, otherwise I also need to decide whether to change plans or not.
She: Oh, well, listen, probably not today, I just don’t know what time I’ll be free. I thought I’d be free later, but it hasn’t worked out yet.

Ok, we exchanged a few words. We said goodbye.

From my personal feelings, I was upset. At first she responded positively, but in the end it somehow disappeared. But these, of course, are my personal feelings and speculation.
In general, now I’m thinking about what to do next. On the one hand, I’m somehow tired of being in the role of a beggar for 2 weeks. On the other hand, it seems like nothing serious happened.
Call again this week? Find out how you are doing, offer to meet? Or score and if she pings, then continue? Although, as far as I knew, she is unlikely to be the first to do anything. In short, I'm pushing something.
Overall I liked the girl. What I want is to start sex the day before and continue communication. If everything is mutual, then you can try a relationship.
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