A simple solution. Next? ⇐ Pick Up

[Anonymous]

Hello everyone, the situation as a whole is quite simple and in some places I understand, but I can’t get rid of one quality in myself: “thinking about others.”
I'm 29
FB 19 (had no experience of relationships at all, as it turned out later BF also virgin)
Acquaintances of the year 1.5. It so happened that we started to get closer in the last six months (we work together, but I know the rule, don’t shit where you eat)
In general, the problem is of the following nature. OZHP generally cannot show attention to me, the answer is always the same and simple: I’m not used to it, I don’t know how, they didn’t teach me.
And so in absolutely everything: elementary, they will never call me to a meeting, but they will never refuse it, I also have access to everything, there are no refusals, but there is no initiative at all except (I started writing first), they will never be the first to hug, or kisses, etc.. The initiative is 99% first from me, 1% from FB, she herself does not deny it. I don’t always spend time with her to my pleasure, OGP doesn’t know how to talk about any relationships at all, and in general, closer conversations never go well, no matter how hard I try (although I never thought that I had problems promoting someone for dialogue, etc..). One also gets the feeling that the difference between ten and ten is certainly serious. Our goals are different.
Actually, the question is the following, there is a feeling that I’m just not her type, but as a spare airfield and just good goodies for her (investing resources, both emotional and material).
Next? Or, indeed, the girl may be so unaccustomed to taking any first steps (by the way, we have close contact for about a month)
I myself feel that there is simply insufficient attraction to me. But what stops me is that it was very often my problem, I think about others (oh how will it be for her, what if she doesn’t understand so well, etc..)
In general, we need an outside perspective.