I caught it, but didn't finish it off. What am I missing guys? ⇐ Pick Up

[Anonymous]

Fireworks to everyone! Inexperienced in this matter. I know how to interest a woman, I know how to fuck well and spend leisure time. How to get through the middle is already more difficult; I always get lost when I need to get to the hotel after a kiss.



I met a girl at a club, she works as a waiter. I took the number and talked for a couple of days. She made contact, but broke down - he lured her out of the house with cunning and took her to eat. At dinner I asked about the girls. I am married, but kept silent - I said that I like all women, I respond to everyone with attention. She smiled and drove on. I took my hand at dinner, stroked my knee, everything was fine. After dinner we drove around the city, took her to a quiet place, kissed her, touched her - she didn’t break down at all, it felt like she was ready to give herself up in the car, but she said she was on her period. He took her to a house outside the city, they cuddled in bed, talked about sex, kissed her neck, took off her jacket, but didn’t finish her off. It was 5 am, he said he wanted to sleep at home, he was on his period, etc. I decided not to be impudent, I think since everything is so easy, I’ll finish the next time.

Then the messages became cold, I didn’t choke either, I didn’t write often. I ignored her messages to tease her, she was offended, but still the communication continued. We agreed to meet a couple of times, she had excuses - she lost her phone, her parents arrived, etc. The swing was fucked, I didn’t write to her for a week - I wrote to her myself. I miss you, I want to see you. I decided to make a surprise - at 4 am after her shift I came for her, she was happy. He says I want to go home, there’s a shift tomorrow. I brazenly drag him to the hotel, we go and don’t resist. As luck would have it, it was January 3rd - there were no places available anywhere. I'm driving home, we have a heart-to-heart talk in the car. She won’t let me home, it’s like she didn’t clean up. I asked what she wanted - she said to meet sometimes, to have a good time. I say I want the same thing. He says in plain text - I will give it to you, but not today. I was embarrassed to fuck in a car, it’s still winter, it’s cold, and I haven’t had sex in a car, but for the first time I want to fuck well and not screw myself up))

There were conversations with her about what she wanted for support, I immediately told her I wouldn’t pay for sex. She laughed it off. And I didn’t even have a moment to buy a gift because there were always spontaneous meetings, I didn’t want to give money either, I wanted sex first, then gifts. I didn’t want the swing to start again after the gift. She hinted at buying underwear, etc., but when she called for shopping, she disappeared on her day off.

After talking in the car, he escorted me to the apartment, stood in the doorway - she still didn’t let me home. He says pick me up tomorrow after work. But I have a family, I can’t taxi from home often at night, we agreed on a day off every other day. And as always frosty. Then things started getting crazy on my part, it was the holidays and I went to see her after work, again conditionally on Friday. She waited until they were closing, took her and her neighbor home, held my hand, kissed me, and didn’t call me home again. The next day I got pumped up again, and almost without memory how the deer went to wait for her at the club after work. I waited an hour until closing, and together with her friends we went to the club. There was no way to waste money there - there are no positions, friends don’t drink. But she spent the whole night in the club next to me, danced, rubbed her ass, paid for her at the bar, scared off her aggressive ex. Kisses, hugs, full contact. I didn’t go to the hotel because supposedly a friend flew to visit her and stayed with her. He walked me home and went home. In conversations I’ve already openly said that she blows my mind like no other woman, it’s probably not our destiny to communicate. She always suppresses such statements, saying, “No, it can’t be. I like you, it’s just unfortunate moments, we’ll meet next time, hopefully with a continuation.” I told her that I wouldn’t write anymore and I wouldn’t look for a meeting. If you want, write it yourself when you have time. The next day I called her after vacation, because... I knew it was a day off, but I said no, I said I would be with friends - sports, skating rink, etc. I wouldn’t have the strength in the evening.
I've been out of touch for over a week now. Baba really sunk into my soul, young, chattering, solid number eight. Face, figure, character. I definitely won’t write to her anymore. As soon as it gets warmer, I think we can invite you to take a vacation and fly for the weekend - a hotel, shopping, etc. But running after her is a mess.
What am I doing wrong, guys? Teach. Sorry for the longread