Is it worth checking your phone and social media? networks in LTR? ⇐ Pick Up

[Anonymous]

The question may seem quite stupid and banal to you, but I will explain why I am asking it:

a) Reading the topics in the section about relationships, I noticed that many write that it is normal for them in relationships to show each other correspondence with other people, or even sometimes have a password for some VK with their partner.

b) Lately I’ve somehow begun to notice that around me, many people in relationships consider this to be something normal. I really didn’t notice how common this is before.

c) I recently read a topic here in which everything was more or less normal for a couple, and at some point a young man was helping a girl install an application and accidentally saw evidence of cheating in the gallery.
It is clear that this is not normal in a healthy relationship, but the factors described above prompted me to create this topic. I always had the thought in my head that trust is the main thing in a relationship. Because you can change it in half an hour during your lunch break at work, if you want. And no one will know about it. Therefore, either you trust the person, or why start a relationship at all?



It was interesting to hear the opinions of forum participants, inveterate seducers, including girls:

1. Do you check your partner's phone?
2. can you ask - who wrote to you there?
3. How would you react if you were asked to show your correspondence?



Maybe someone has an interesting story on this topic.
p.s. - moderators, if I created a topic in the wrong section, sorry, please move or correct it.