The daughter began to have sex. How to accept this? ⇐ General

[Anonymous]

Greetings to all. I found out that my daughter started having sex. On the one hand, she has already reached the appropriate age (nowadays young people start this earlier than we started). On the other hand, I still remember how I changed her diapers, how she walked around with bows on her head... And I’m shocked. She was always modest, all about her studies, played the violin, rarely walked on the street... Not because my wife and I forbade it, on the contrary, sometimes we even forced her to walk. But she liked her hobbies more, books. She's beautiful though. I guessed that she was dating someone (even though I couldn’t believe it), but I didn’t know that they had already gone that far. Is it worth talking to her about this, giving her some advice? She is closer to me than to her mother. Guys, who already have adult daughters, how did you react when she entered adulthood? Were you jealous, afraid, worried?
It seemed like it was no secret that this would happen someday, but I didn’t think it would happen now. I probably wouldn’t worry so much about my son. Sorry for the confusion, I just found out about this and am a little confused. P.S. Perverts, please crawl past this topic. I perceive my daughter only as a daughter and nothing more.