He gets sick all the time on the day of the meeting, throws a photo 18+, waits for a meeting, does not accept gifts. ⇐ Pick Up

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I'm 30, she's 27. We met on СЗ more than a month ago. We live in the same city. I don't have anyone, she says too.

Communication somehow went right away, although the girl is peculiar. We have been talking for more than a month in the mode from morning to night. We communicate in a style almost as if we were in a relationship, although this is strange of course. The problem is, we haven't seen each other until now.

After 2 weeks of talking, I asked her to meet. She gladly. An hour before the meeting, she is urgently called to work, the meeting will be canceled. Apologizes. The next morning he offers to meet in the evening. I agree. Evening comes and she gets sick - canceled again. Then I understand that something is not right and I begin to merge with communication. She writes, apologizes, explains that it’s just unlucky that she will improve. I think ok.

Next, as luck would have it, I'm leaving for a business trip for 2 weeks. She says that she will wait for me and we will finally meet. While she was on a business trip, she fell ill with bronchitis, so on my return, the meeting last weekend did not take place again.

Last Sunday. She is sick, stays at home, and I brought her a small present from a business trip. I think since we didn’t see each other, I’ll surprise her - I’ll send a courier home through Yandex. I tell her about my plans - she refuses. I find out the reason - the strict parents say, they are tormented to explain themselves (she seems to live with them) and generally does not like surprises. I ask why - she says that in the past there were enough surprises, the main one of which was when she found the groom at home with her girlfriend. At the same time, she immediately adds that it’s not about me, it’s her cockroaches, she promises to meet next weekend. < /span>

I feel like there's some kind of inconsistency in all of this, I can't figure out why. After all this, I'm not sure that I want to meet her anymore - when you were prodina a bunch of times, and then they showed up as if nothing had happened.
[*] What should I do? How to interpret all this? Toli really a series of unfortunate coincidences, roofing felts me dynamite. And against this background, we communicate well, she throws pictures 18+. On the one hand, the girl seems to be not bad, very beautiful, it is interesting to try something with her. And on the other hand, several failed meetings because of her (as if for good reasons, if true, of course, but nevertheless), plus because of the cockroaches with the former, they also politely sent me with a present. It feels like there is some kind of inconsistency here, but I can't figure out what it is. [*] And I didn’t understand at all why I refused to accept the gift, and what does this have to do with me and the story with the groom, what is the relationship here? And before that, I didn’t notice her talking about the former, which was very pleasing and distinguished from other young ladies.