Help with an already seduced girl ⇐ Pick Up

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Hello everyone, P 20, D 19



We met in a common company at a holiday, a girl 6.5b. We spent half a day together, actively kinesthetized, hugged, after the event a little drunk came to me and slept. She said “it shouldn’t have happened so quickly .. we won’t meet after that .. you won’t even call another on a date,” taxied it to the positive, kissed and went to bed, ordered her a taxi in the morning and went to do his own thing . She wrote to me, talked a little, the next day the same way. There was a lot of work, we didn’t correspond at all for a week and accidentally saw her in the store. We chatted a bit, heard that she was worried about this situation and felt used, to which I replied saying “it’s not my style to spend so much time on a person for a one-time sex, let’s go sit in a coffee shop, talk?”. She agreed, discussed the situation, said since sex on the first date scared you so much, we will assume that it was taken in advance, so let's remove the negativity from communication and try to replay the situation, happily agreed, sat in an embrace, kissed and left on business.

We corresponded for a couple of days, discussed various topics on light, briefly wrote that she didn’t want a serious relationship because she didn’t want a serious relationship. afraid of them, asked what I think about this - answered that I don’t like to think of anything, if everything turns out by itself - why not. I made an appointment for today in a cafe, we chatted very cool, laughed, touched me, I touched her, heard from her the phrase "in the future we will do this, then do it" and in other style. She was called home to help her parents, drove her, hugged for another 5 minutes, said “where are you going to kiss, we haven’t met yet” with a smile, ignored and kissed for the same amount.



20 minutes pass, he tells me different things as usual and asks the question "Do you remember that I said that I don't want a relationship?", I answer:

- Do you understand that your behavior is very different from your words in correspondence?

- I like you and when you want to take my hand or kiss me, I can't refuse you.

- What is the problem, why did you start this conversation?

- I think I'm not ready for a relationship with anyone, I have a double feeling, you take the initiative in your own hands and it's cool, but sometimes it looks like you're putting pressure on me, I like you and I can't

refuse it

- Let's just do it this way, if you are fully aware that you do not want to continue this story - just end the conversation on a good note.

- You can do this, because it seems to me that it will only get worse.

- OK, bye.



In general, extremely inadequate behavior, as for me, because at the meeting she behaved like a girl in love, touched me herself, sat in an embrace with pleasure, laughed and kissed very passionately)

Perhaps she was trying to fill her own worth so that I would start to dissuade her and say that everything would work out, since all these “it seems to me”, “maybe”, “I’m afraid” appear in messages for a reason, so as not to break firewood and not drain their significance to the bottom finished contact.


The girl is my type, it was very pleasant to communicate and spend time together, there are many common topics and interests. Of course, I didn’t offer any relationship to her, but after the meeting I was already set for some kind of beginning and the next date at my place. Is it possible to steer this situation, is it worth writing to her?