We live in different countries. Need advice ⇐ Pick Up

[Guest]

Hello dear forum users.

I ask for help from those who know, I have been reading the forum for a long time, I know that some people will already write messages in the spirit of "but there are few women in your city", but still.



About me: 33 years old, married, divorced, no children. After the divorce, there were 5 OJP with two of them were LTR lasting almost a year each. OJP: 30 years old, single and never been married, no children. Question:
When I was on a business trip in another country, I went on a couple of dates, met on tinder, nothing special, and a couple of days before my return, met on tinder with OZHP, I really liked it. There were only 3 dates, I didn’t push through before sex, there were only kisses, there was a very good rapport, interest was also clearly visible on her part. I told her at the very first meeting that I live in another country, and of course I plan to go back. Actually, this is the crux of the problem. I'm stuck on OJP, I can't move to her country for various reasons. She is in a foreign country for herself, she is from the same country as me, but she has been living in a new country for two years, in which, according to her, she likes it much more, she has a well-established life, but she wants to work according to her education , and yet you have to move to all sorts of jobs not in your specialty, for example, the last one is an administrator in a hotel.
We discussed this a little, but she said in plain text that 3 meetings are very few in order to break loose like that and drop everything and go back to her.
We support online communication, I understand that this will not last very long, well, I would very much like her to make a decision to move.
The idea was to continue communicating at least online until she herself wants to move, but I would like to somehow competently take this situation out in my favor. Grateful for any advice.