In correspondence with any man, sooner or later - usually early - the topic of
sexual fantasies comes up. "What would you like?" And it becomes clear that we need fire, a gun - a bomb - fireworks. Necessarily. At first I tried something there, listened to myself, looked closely. And after a billion similar correspondences, I realized that I only have one fantasy. Normal gentle sex. Adult people. With an orgasm, and mine too. I voiced this thought to someone there. “Eww,” he said, how boring and banal!
Or maybe because normal sex, without fucking, without handcuffs, gags, creaming, is not so easy? To be effective, huh? I know some people can. At the risk of earning a "boring" sign

But the majority are not....

Or am I really so boring and banal, I don’t know...