Influence of MJM on relations ⇐ General

[Anonymous]

Good afternoon, this topic worries me very much, I ask you to write to those who have real experience and can suggest something
I have been married for 8 years. Before marriage, my husband and I visited swing clubs and parties, we live in Moscow - there are a lot of them here, when a serious relationship began, we stopped visiting, the husband dissuades
I offered my husband FFM, but he says that he prefers MFM because FFM is 2 times more work
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He is very jealous , constantly suspects of treason.
In general, I suspect in my husband a desire for MFM and a penchant for cuckolding. I myself am also interested, I’m thinking of starting to push him towards this
But I’m very worried, if this happens, will his attitude towards me change, will he begin to love me less? Tell us your experience, has your attitude towards your wives changed? How did it change?