Wife desperately wants MFM ⇐ General

[Anonymous]

Good afternoon, this is my first message on the forum, please do not judge strictly. I am a man, 30 years old, 6 years in a relationship, 3 years of which in marriage. My wife is 3 years younger than me. Before my wife, I had only one serious relationship and one sexual partner. My wife had two relationships before me, but several dozen sexual partners. We always without hesitation discussed our sex life before our relationship, always discussed our fantasies and in In general, we talk openly about sex. We have full sex, with mutual oral-anal sex, there is no problem with that. My wife had experience of FFM in a relationship before me, but it was very negative, everyone was uncomfortable and the sex itself was constrained and more unpleasant. I am completely and completely satisfied with life and sex with my wife, she says that our sex also completely suits her (I have no reason to doubt, she regularly cums, squirts and happily agrees to any caresses). But, by nature, I am bisexual, I am excited by the thought of sex with a guy, although I have never had such experience. My wife and I periodically practice strap-ons and toys, this also turns her on and our sex only benefits us.
For the first time in our 6 years together, we are at a great distance from each other, on business trips. We will not be together soon, and not for a long time, after which there will again be about half a year of separation. They started doing a lot of virtual work, agreed not to cheat on each other (they had never cheated on each other before), and then a couple of weeks ago they started talking about group sex. My wife said that she would never be able to repeat the FFM experience, the very thought of it was unpleasant for her and she didn’t want me to fuck another girl. But she would like to watch me have sex with a guy and masturbate in the process. And smoothly from these discussions the conversation turned to the fact that she had been dreaming about MFM for a long time, but could not tell me this. She says that if I refuse, she will understand and will not insist, since we really have a very strong relationship, strong feelings and we cannot even think about cheating. But she has such a fantasy and it has been gnawing at her for a long time. She said that she would gladly invite a third person into our bed if I myself was ready for this. And I’m terribly afraid that this will simply ruin our relationship. I don’t want FFM, I’m not interested in other girls, and even though sex with a guy is attractive, I can live without it (after all, there are toys), but for me the priority has always been to give my wife pleasure rather than receive himself. And I understand that since the conversation about mzhm came up, it means she wants it. And I want her to feel good, but I’m not sure that this will not harm our relationship. So what should we do now?