Married. I met a girl. Strange communication ⇐ Pick Up

[Anonymous]

Greetings. 

Please take a look at the situation from the outside. 

In general, I’ve been married for 13 years, I have a child, I’m 36.

All this is stressful after 13 years. Well, that's not the point. 

In general, I worked at a service station, a girl came to us to repair her car. I liked it. I noticed that he always looks at me too. 

In general, I left there, found her page on VK and wrote. 

Everything is as it is, I was hooked, I liked it, I would like to meet you and communicate. 

I immediately noticed that it took a long time to respond. 

She answered and said that she recognized me and she was very pleased and unexpected. 

I don’t know why, in fact, I wrote to her, since we all understand perfectly well that the age of 36 is already a “spoiled” age. People have two divorces, children, mortgages, loans and a lot of problems. 

Well, not for our landfill. I liked it and that’s it, I just can’t, I’m drawn to her. 

In general, the first question I asked her right away was, is she married? She says no, and never has been. 

She's 36! But she has been living with a guy for 5 years, as neighbors, there is no relationship.

She could have kicked me right away, because she knows who I am, she saw me not in the best dirty form) She would have said that I was married, sorry. 

I admitted honestly, I am married and have a son. 

Everything is sad with my wife. 

I'm afraid of the unknown, so I pull the strap. She understood me very much, she even says she feels it. 

Then there were a couple of days of communication, I offered to meet, but we both have tough jobs, I live there, she just changed. In general, the meeting was postponed for half a month. Everything is fine. But I agree. 

We’ve been talking for the second week, sometimes we fantasized about running away together, giving free rein to words and dreams. 

Now we communicate very warmly, puts hearts in the cart, sends kisses in replies. Everything seems fine. When you meet, you can safely hug and kiss like your own. 

She said that she couldn’t kick the guy out of her apartment, she was packing her things for the hundredth time. He even thinks about renting a house for himself. It's kind of absurd. 

It seems that everything is fine in communication, but there is a problem, she never writes first. I’ve even asked to record my voicemail, but it’s still silent. 

The second day has passed, silence. Well, I’m really tired of writing first, what kind of manipulation. 

Well, if you don’t want communication, why develop it like that? 

In general, some kind of game. I do not know what to do. But I don’t want to ask stupidly, this is nerdiness. Of course, I may not write stupidly and maybe that will be the end. But it didn’t seem like everything was bad. 

She said that she would rent an apartment and go there. But I’m still tight with money. 

I could easily rent her an apartment and come to her, that would be ideal. But I don’t want to become Alen) Otherwise he will live for free and fuck with others while I’m gone.