Hi all. There are two questions for the forum.
I’m divorced, 35 years old, now I have a girlfriend, we’ve been dating for six months, but what’s most valuable in her is sex. There is also a married colleague of my age who began to show obvious interest in me, remember the smallest details about me, make subtle jokes, and so on. In general, a deep emotional connection was established with her. And over time, in general, I began to fall in love with her, since her appearance was also okay.
We flirt with her, about gender relations, she constantly asks about my relationship, she is silent about her husband. We walked together a couple of times, then there was a corporate party where we hugged each other so closely while dancing. Afterwards, she drove me home, took her hand, she didn’t mind, tried to kiss her - she pulled away, said I have a husband, you’re drunk, go home (in a languid voice). I didn't put any pressure.
And the very next day she invited me to go for a walk, but it didn’t work out (apparently I liked the pestering). Then she came to see me several times, sat in the car, walked on the street, hugged, held hands.
Then he tells me, like, I need to quit, I don’t know how to continue working together. Then she said that her husband burned out on how she came to see me and set up geolocation tracking. Since then she hasn’t been going to any meetings, but there were hugs after work in the evening a couple of times, although the initiative had already come from me, she didn’t deny it, but after a couple of minutes she said like I have to go, that’s it.
Question one. I’m tired of these incomprehensible things and I can’t understand what she wants from me. I got hooked on it myself. Whether to try to get off this needle or to push through it, I don’t know.
And second. There is a colleague at work, a guy who doesn’t look very good, but he’s such a joker - she just blossoms and laughs constantly with him. It feels like he wants to provoke me into jealousy or something. As if on purpose. Because she told me before about him that he is a bad person. But I could be wrong here, since she is friendly with everyone, but with this it just looks like flirting. I don’t react at all when I see this, but inside I get a little angry. How to behave here?
Corporate flirting ⇐ Pick Up
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