15+ older than me ⇐ Pick Up

[Anonymous]

Good afternoon, dear forum users, I will be brief so as not to distract your attention to a topic that is not particularly interesting, but I hope you can give me some advice.
I met on VK a milf 15 years older than myself, she’s 45 years old, that is, I’m in my forties and she’s already in her fifth, but oh well, what do we have. The correspondence was broken for a long time, in the end I gave an ultimatum, either yes or no, like without sex there can be nothing in common, and therefore a day later he writes, I’m ready, I’m ready to come, you’ll kiss me all over and I love wine and candles.
There’s one nuance here: I didn’t want to spend money on it at all, I’ve never spent much on 20-year-olds, in principle I don’t want to buy anything, but here’s the first meeting with an old lady and already wine and candles, but you didn’t care, guys, how not to lose face ? If let’s say she comes and I don’t buy any wine, is it worth warning her, and she’s driving, what kind of wine….