How to retrain a guy in bed for rougher sex? ⇐ General

[Anonymous]

We have great sex, we've been together for a year, before me he was a virgin. But there is one problem, I don’t know how to correct my boyfriend’s behavior in bed. I want rougher, harder sex. I want him to take me by the hair, strangle me, spank me harder. Yes, he spanks, but not hard at all, he takes her by the head during a blowjob, but that’s not it. I asked him if you like this at all, would you like it, he said no. Please tell me how to hint to him that this is what excites me or can slowly lead me to this?