Does self-esteem improve with sex? ⇐ General

[Anonymous]

Maybe I didn’t formulate the title of the topic very well. I'll try to explain the question. Women (I’ll listen to men too). Have you ever had sex with a certain man or a group of men, or the appearance of sex in general, raise or lower your self-esteem?
A couple of cases about your experience.
1) There was a mistress, a hot thing! She told me that she married her first man and the sex with him was not very good. She got divorced (I don’t know for what reasons), and sometimes dated other men. Sex somehow didn’t work out. Deeply over 30, I liked sex for the first time. Then she gave birth, raised a child, rarely had sex, and why would she? And at the age of 40, men began to appear again, sex became more interesting, but I still thought that she was a log. At the time of our meeting, she had been without sex for six months, she came out to NW, maybe! We met and started fucking. She liked it and says that with age she became more relaxed. At SZ she met not only me. At the same time, she communicated with others and told them that they had fucked (seven people in a year, but 1-3 times with each). I told her that she is a gorgeous woman, you can fuck and fuck her and have fun, and that she is a dream for men. She told me that only now she believed in herself and agreed with me, because in a year she had a constant lover (me) + 7 men and + many more who wanted and she (oh my God!) began to choose with whom she wants and with whom No! In short, the attention of men from SZ made her a woman confident in her beauty and coolness.
2) I met a fellow countryman who wanted to make his wife sw. He told her about his desires. She became interested and agreed. We started dating and fucking. Self-esteem is also so-so. He told me about SZ, started a profile in her name, and both had access to it. I started the conversation, she continued. Soon there was no end to people wanting to fuck her. I met someone and had sex. I realized that I am interested in men, the main thing is to offer it correctly and in the right place. We talked to her the other day. She said that with the start of the sw relationship, she became confident in herself, knows her worth and understands how cool she is!
Have you had any such turning points? When everything turned upside down in my head and the understanding came, “Wow!!!” ?