Seduce a friend from training) ⇐ Pick Up

[Anonymous]

Good afternoon.

I'm 37, she's 31-32. We've known each other for a couple of years, we just talked during training. Sometimes she turned to me about some specific work-related issues, and sometimes she even came to the office and helped me in small ways.

In general, they always communicated well, and in some places it even seemed to me that she communicated with me in a somewhat special way, more willingly or something. She often laughed at my jokes. At the beginning of training we always hug, and at the end we hug goodbye too. On February 23, he sends me a long message of congratulations, late in the evening. She told me all sorts of nice things, and he replied that I was very pleased.

On March 3, one of our mutual acquaintances invites us to his concert, let's go, besides us, there were a lot of our acquaintances. He comes into the club, sees me - immediately comes to me, hugs me, even seems to have kissed me on the neck - he can’t reach any higher, he’s not tall)) We sit down at the bar together, grab a beer, in general we hung out there for 4 hours constantly together, laughing, drinking beer and chatting . On the way out, I saw her off, walked around the city at night, and grabbed some more coffee. When I got there, I wrote a message “thank you very much for the evening, good night.”

On March 8, I was leaving for another city, and I also congratulated her with a voice. She also answered in a voice that was very pleasant, she was skiing. I wrote a message in response - nothing special, just chatter. Didn't answer.

I returned to the city, she was not at the training for a week and a half. We didn't communicate. She came and asked where she had been. It turned out that she was sick and was being treated. We chatted a bit. Last week at lunchtime I wrote that “the weather is good, let’s go have coffee.” Our offices are nearby in the city center. He answers that there is a lot of work, let’s do it tomorrow. No question, tomorrow comes, I’m writing closer to lunch: “how’s the time?” He answers that “I’m busy, I’ll be free around 14.” At 15 o’clock he writes: “don’t wait for me, I’m still very busy ((”. Since then, we saw each other a couple of times at training, but didn’t really communicate. I’m not sure that you should impose yourself with communication, but she’s not the first to make contact.

I don’t have much time to communicate with her, ideally I would like to start a SO. The girl is popular, bright, has many male friends. She clearly does not lack male attention. Initially, I calibrated her as a suitable candidate for this. It seemed to me that she seemed to be interested, but due to two refusals for coffee in a row, I’m somehow not sure anymore)

Do you think it makes sense to invite her somewhere else/offer something?