Mobile versionI met a girl on a dive, went on a first date. We drank beer and had a light, cheerful conversation. In the cart we were texting, calling each other, throwing cute stickers with cats to each other, good night, that’s all. But no one bombarded anyone with messages. I could call 3 days a week. At the first meeting, he gave me a ring from a garage bottle, said that it was beautiful) It turns out that he made it clear that in DOD I don’t want to. There was light kinesthetics, then I’ll give you a hand when we walk, then I’ll touch your hand, then I’ll hit you in the shoulder playfully, neutral calibration. At the end of the date, when they were saying goodbye, he hugged me for a long time and didn’t let go, then tried to kiss me (as I understood, he was a k-). I didn’t succeed in kissing, I only kissed him on the cheek, also k-(he says I have foundation there, what are you doing?)). He said nothing. When I went home, I saw a message from her: “Sorry for reacting like that.” I just didn't expect it." I asked how I got there and where I was spending the night. At this point I started to ignore her a little, she says that I’m different with the chick. I say no. And in general, I somehow started communicating with her less, calling less, writing less. Although she herself continued to call closer to the night, there were times that she ignored because she was busy. Everything went without any offense. Then he asked why she didn’t congratulate me in a humorous manner on February 23, well, so as to maintain a purely dialogue. She joked that she had a memory like a fish. But she herself began to ask what I would give her for her birthday, which is coming soon. I say, I’ll give myself, you didn’t give me anything when I was 23. She: "damn." Maybe he's looking for a sponsor?) On the second date, a week later (without alcohol), we sat in the same place and talked. Then I came on a date to kiss him on purpose. And somehow, with BC then I was thinking about how I could kiss. She did most of the talking; I almost only asked questions during the monologue. She didn’t really stop, which was also a little annoying. She tried to take her hand while they were walking, held it, then pulled it away. When saying goodbye, she seemed to have grown cold, and didn’t want to hug anyone. Tried to kiss, turns away. He remained silent.
It seems that communication in TG has become colder, but here I don’t know, to be honest. Yes, and to a very minimum. It became 0, to be honest). I called a week later, offered to meet, she responded positively, and came to see her. I tried to kiss him when we met right away. I take it by the head and throws it back. I say out of the blue: “Didn’t they teach you how to kiss?)”. She: “no, they didn’t teach me.” Again, we communicated easily and cheerfully. It's time to say goodbye. He says that he is in a hurry to get home and suggests leaving the place. I say: “I’ll be here, if necessary, then go.” She didn’t go away right away, something started to arise, I still didn’t understand why. No, well, if she needs it, then let her go. I go out later anyway. We hug as quickly as possible, and I go home. Then maximum cold in the TG. She started harassing me when I tried to call at night. She completely stopped answering calls. Here I ask what's the matter. She begins to say in a rude manner that she is busy now, although previously a normal person would have called at this time. She started telling me that I didn’t understand anything. Like apologize for something you don’t know why. She started insulting me. I hammered the bolt, sent it, and went to bed. The next morning I see a GS in which I am accused of violating my personal space, of intruding on kisses, etc.) I answer that there is nothing in this, that this is the norm, and I give up. She says that this is not the norm for her.
I really don't understand what the mistake is. Should I have kissed her on the 101st date so that everything would be romantic?
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I met a girl on a dive, went on a first date. We drank beer and had a light, cheerful conversation. In the cart we were texting, calling each other, throwing cute stickers with cats to each other, good night, that’s all. But no one bombarded anyone with messages. I could call 3 days a week. At the first meeting, he gave me a ring from a garage bottle, said that it was beautiful) It turns out that he made it clear that in DOD I don’t want to. There was light kinesthetics, then I’ll give you a hand when we walk, then I’ll touch your hand, then I’ll hit you in the shoulder playfully, neutral calibration. At the end of the date, when they were saying goodbye, he hugged me for a long time and didn’t let go, then tried to kiss me (as I understood, he was a k-). I didn’t succeed in kissing, I only kissed him on the cheek, also k-(he says I have foundation there, what are you doing?)). He said nothing. When I went home, I saw a message from her: “Sorry for reacting like that.” I just didn't expect it." I asked how I got there and where I was spending the night. At this point I started to ignore her a little, she says that I’m different with the chick. I say no. And in general, I somehow started communicating with her less, calling less, writing less. Although she herself continued to call closer to the night, there were times that she ignored because she was busy. Everything went without any offense. Then he asked why she didn’t congratulate me in a humorous manner on February 23, well, so as to maintain a purely dialogue. She joked that she had a memory like a fish. But she herself began to ask what I would give her for her birthday, which is coming soon. I say, I’ll give myself, you didn’t give me anything when I was 23. She: "damn." Maybe he's [url=viewtopic.php?t=809]looking for[/url] a sponsor?) On the second date, a week later (without alcohol), we sat in the same place and talked. Then I came on a date to kiss him on purpose. And somehow, with BC then I was thinking about how I could kiss. She did most of the talking; I almost only asked questions during the monologue. She didn’t really stop, which was also a little annoying. She tried to take her hand while they were walking, held it, then pulled it away. When saying goodbye, she seemed to have grown cold, and didn’t want to hug anyone. Tried to kiss, turns away. He remained silent.
It seems that communication in TG has become colder, but here I don’t know, to be honest. Yes, and to a very minimum. It became 0, to be honest). I called a week later, offered to meet, she responded positively, and came to see her. I tried to kiss him when we met right away. I take it by the head and throws it back. I say out of the blue: “Didn’t they teach you how to kiss?)”. She: “no, they didn’t teach me.” Again, we communicated easily and cheerfully. It's time to say goodbye. He says that he is in a hurry to get home and suggests leaving the place. I say: “I’ll be here, if necessary, then go.” She didn’t go away right away, something started to arise, I still didn’t understand why. No, well, if she needs it, then let her go. I go out later anyway. We hug as quickly as possible, and I go home. Then maximum cold in the TG. She started harassing me when I tried to call at night. She completely stopped answering calls. Here I ask what's the matter. She begins to say in a rude manner that she is busy now, although previously a normal person would have called at this time. She started telling me that I didn’t understand anything. Like apologize for something you don’t know why. She started insulting me. I hammered the bolt, sent it, and went to bed. The next morning I see a GS in which I am accused of violating my personal space, of intruding on kisses, etc.) I answer that there is nothing in this, that this is the norm, and I give up. She says that this is not the norm for her.
I really don't understand what the mistake is. Should I have kissed her on the 101st date so that everything would be romantic?
