How to fix a stick ⇐ Pick Up

[Anonymous]

Hi all.

I am 29 years old

she is 25 years old, has LTR

The situation is this: we have a girl, we work in the same team remotely in different cities. At first we just worked, only on work-related issues, but then we found some common topics and began to actively communicate outside of work-related issues. What suited me, and how a person (or friend) turned out to be in my cards. We communicated in this way for a year, and in October we met for the first time in Moscow at the head office of our company, everything was ok, then we went to some bar, sat and talked, everything was fine. Then in December we met on the same occasion and in the same format. There is interest on her part, there is on mine, but there was nothing, there were no plans for her either. I was happy with what it was.

At some point I begin to notice that I have some kind of fixation on it. I'm starting to get stuck, to put it briefly. Some thoughts, initiative, super-interest, desire to help, dreams, etc., from which BZ began to fall a little, more negativity appeared. I stopped thinking rationally, my cool head turned off, all the accumulated methods from this forum over the years began to seem meaningless, everything was mixed into a mess. And that made me a little lost in myself. He didn’t refuse other women, he worked as before, his hobby of sports was still there.

My thoughts on this situation are as follows: She has LTR, she is from another city, she does not pass some of my filters for possible