How to act in such a situation. Your opinion is interesting, gentlemen! ⇐ Pick Up

[Anonymous]

Hello everyone!

I would like to read thoughts from experienced strategists, perhaps this will cool me down or, on the contrary, give me some chance for a favorable outcome.

And so I am 33 years old. I am looking for a life partner with whom I can start a family and be happy.

Unfortunately, I don’t see such a person on the horizon yet. There are only ladies who have certain unsuitable qualities for me.

There is OZhP three years younger, we work together but in different structures. We see her periodically! There is intimacy, but the main thing is she ismarried!

Although she often says that she will divorce her husband, she even plans to divorce her this year, but this does not make her a suitable person for me (although I am also not a saint since I date a married woman) because... This is already a bad start for a future together. Plus she has a baby! This is an additional disadvantage that I, being free and having no children, do not want to put up with.

I won’t guess how seriously she treats me. Perhaps I'm just a toy or a lover nothing more. Although I’m not rushing anything either!

Following are some details about her:

she is slender in figure, long-legged, and smiling brunette, loves to flirt, can call someone handsome in front of me, generally a positive, energetic girl.

Everyone at work knows perfectly well that she is married. Although when I took the initiative I didn’t know such details, later she reported it herself.

And so there is the main point in this whole story this madam has a sister. Very attractive (I saw them together in stories once) I know that she is not married, has no children, I even know the house where she lives because... I picked up my married colleague from there, and I know that she works in a chain store, but I don’t know which one.

Another important point is that he and his sister have a close family relationship. Those. they love each other, and getting ahead of themselves and knowing what I’m up to here, they can just dump me without blinking an eye.

And I began to be tormented by thoughts and ideas on how to approach her sister. And how will all this turn out!

Considering that I don’t show my photos anywhere, I don’t think that her sister knows what I look like.

I understand that if I try to approach my sister, they can simply turn me away, and there will be no point in guessing further and creating controversy.

But maybe the bright minds of the forum will suggest something, offer a strategy on how to act at the initial stage.

P.S. Today at work, a colleague made fun of us with OZHP, saying, introduce your sister to him, pointing at me, saying after all, I’m not married anyway!