Is this a perversion or the norm? ⇐ Gay forum

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Hello! Question for women. I am 28 years old. I am an adult, not a teenager. I just have no luck with women. A question has arisen. Is manual caressing a man's penis with a woman's hands considered perversion? I'm interested. I like it when a girl caresses my penis with her hands. This is manual caresses. How common and practiced is this among couples? Women tell me that it is perversion to perform manual caresses on a man. And this is the 21st century! That's why I ask. Well, I have such bad luck with women. Don't think this post is crazy. What's the point in lying to me? On my own behalf, I just wanted to add that I studied sexual sources, both medical and ordinary, on the topic of intimacy. Nowhere is it written that this refers to disorders and perversion. But medicine is medicine, and women tell me that it disgusts them? Am I trying to get too far, or is it really a perverted practice?
More. Of course, in exchange for this desire, I am ready to satisfy all the desires of my girlfriend. I'm not selfish, that's just for me. Whatever she asks.
And the extreme. This desire is not my main one. I just don't want to give it up. But it is not the main thing, as an addition. So I don’t understand what’s going on.
I consulted sexologists even on this topic. They told me that my desire is the absolute norm. About 20 people told me this. And sexologists and psychiatrists.
They calmed me down. They said that caressing the penis with a woman’s hands is practiced in almost 99% of couples. You are completely healthy.
But in fact, they are deceiving me. When I talk to real women, and not doctors, women tell me that it is disgusting to them.
Taking a man’s genital organ in your hand and caressing it is disgusting and disgusting for them. It’s not even unpleasant, but disgusting and perverted.
That’s why I wrote the post. And not because I have nothing to do. So it’s not clear to me what is normal in intimacy and what is not.
And I absolutely adore it when a woman caresses my private parts with her hands.
But I can’t find such a woman. So they would write that this is a perversion!
Well? Perversion or normality?