The man turned out to be a cuckold. Enlighten me ⇐ General

[Anonymous]

Guys, hello. I would be grateful for any clarification point by point, because... my head is a mess. A year later, my beloved man said that he was a cuckold. Sorry if the questions seem stupid, and don't throw slippers at me. Thanks to everyone who can handle it. 1. I don’t know if he had any experience, but could it turn out that these are just his fantasies. What is the risk that this will turn out to be negative (after this there will be disgust towards me and reproaches, like, that’s how you love me). This is the only moment that scares me. I'm afraid that after this he will turn his back on me. It won't take away reality. 2. He is not very talkative on this topic, but he is waiting for video evidence from me with another man. Is this normal? Our relationship is very complicated. I love him madly, but it seems to me that he doesn’t, and only allows me to love him. Suddenly this is a test, so that later you can send me away nicely (because we constantly come together and diverge), like that’s all your love. It’s like he doesn’t want me, in a year there were 1.5 anal and 3.5 blowjobs. He avoids sex (size is a toddler and his erection is very bad). This makes me think. We don’t have a very close relationship; in my opinion, he generally thinks that we don’t have a relationship, but I behave with him like a couple. And suddenly he offers this. I thought this was when people have been in normal, full-fledged relationships for a long time and there is complete trust between them. This is not the case here and it’s strange. 3. Do cuckolds know how to love “their” woman? 4. Do they get married and have children? 5. Do they even sleep with their woman, or will the relationship always be for three (the left guy will constantly spank me, and my beloved will simply “exist” in my life, but I will not have sex with him)? I want sex with him, and not for my beloved to “just be.” 6. Do cuckolds value such women (without any, you sl...ha, etc.). Or if something just isn’t to his liking, will they easily find a replacement right away? 7. How often should you have sex with a third person? Once a year? Once a month? Once a week? Who decides this? 8. And the cuckold always sleeps with his woman after the man, that is, if she hasn’t slept with anyone, then the cuckold doesn’t sleep with her because he’s not excited? 9. I read on the Internet that cuckolds are very faithful and do not cheat, right? For me, this is a plus after my ex’s betrayal. 10. They write on the Internet that cuckolds can reach a certain stage when they start dressing in women’s clothes and stop sleeping with their woman? 11. What questions can I ask so that he doesn’t think that I’m afraid, merging, or something else? I'm afraid he won't be ready for reality. He himself has not been particularly forthcoming, so it is unlikely that he will tell the truth. What also confuses me is that there was a strange note - manipulation!!! Will it turn out later that he was just using me, like I didn’t promise anything? I would like to do this in a relationship, and not when it is unclear what will happen next, i.e. if we fully meet all the consequences. I would not like to make empty “sacrifices”. If I start making demands, won't it be strange or an ultimatum? Damn, I don't even know what to do.