I'm 35, she's 18. Is there a future? ⇐ Pick Up

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A little about myself, I’m 35 years old, I was in a relationship for a very long time, probably about 10 years ago, after that there were hookups, but nothing serious, and then I met a girl of 18 years old, we met on the Internet, she immediately came to my work, literally on the second day, she and I we sat down for nothing serious, then the second meeting was basically the same, but there was verbal contact, hugs, kisses, then we went on a date and held hands. Then she started sending me intimate photos, very frank, she started writing to me her desires, what she wants, how she wants, but when I said let’s meet alone in the apartment, she said that she wasn’t ready. After that, I started liking her photos, writing comments, and she asked me not to do this, citing about the fact that her parents can see her brother and now she doesn’t want to disclose about our relationship, then some guy appeared in the comments and started writing to me that he was her fiancé, that everything was serious with them, but when I asked her a question about this, she said that this is some kind of boyfriend, she explained everything to him and wants to build a relationship with me, which I agreed to, but after this situation the relationship began to decline, she began to move away, she wrote less. I’m working and I freaked out and just deleted all the correspondence and deleted her from the contact list A She added me to the blacklist, a week later she was removed from the blacklist, she wrote hello and I replied. I started asking her questions why she did this to me, what I did wrong, where I messed up, well, she didn’t answer anything, like she got a boyfriend in this short period of time, she refuses to meet. Now the situation is as follows: I began to confess my love to her, began to write to her that I want a relationship with her, maybe she will freeze me at the meeting, does not agree, based on the fact that she has a boyfriend, while he is there and we cannot meet with her But she she doesn’t love him, she’s attached to him. For my part, I just bombard her with all sorts of slobbery messages about how I want to be with her, I want a relationship, that we need to meet to discuss, but she won’t call anyone, she just replies to the message, we’ll briefly talk for now, we’ll be friends and brought it up no one me. What do I want from her, maybe a relationship, maybe just sex, but when she starts talking about her boyfriend about her buns, writing to me just twists me, it jars me like a fifteen-year-old boy, jealousy, anger, I start writing all sorts of bullshit to her, I don’t know what to do guys. Maybe give links to some patterns of behavior on how to behave, how to freeze her, how to keep her at a distance but at the same time interest her so that she would be interested in me from the last one, I sent her a correspondence with a friend with hers, she supposedly saw that the girl wrote to me and suddenly wanted to meet me but I wasn’t ready I was at work I said I can’t now I’m busy the next day I wrote Today I’m free we can meet she says I can’t do it anymore I don’t want to guys I’m counting on your help thank you