Where is the best place to get acquainted with RSP ⇐ Pick Up

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Hello everybody.

I recently came across this forum, and I see that there are people here who are knowledgeable and can give good advice on relationship issues. Since there is already an incredible amount of topics here, I couldn’t find the question that interested me (sorry), although it was probably raised many times, but still time passes, everything changes, and what was adequate for some people in 2015 is completely -to another in the 23rd. That's why I actually created this topic.

So, I’m 34 years old, I live in Moscow, I work in IT, I probably look like a 4, although everyone’s scale is different, but if Brad Pitt is 10, then it’s definitely a 4. In recent years, apparently old age has begun to knock on me (including began to turn grey), and with it the desire to spend more time at home (maybe remote work had an impact) and to have a family, well, in the usual sense - a wife, children there, then maybe a dacha and all that. Not like in the old years, of course, when I wanted any lady in a short skirt and with bigger breasts.

And in connection with all this, it suddenly turned out that many women of the same age still have the wind in their heads: they don’t want children, they don’t care about housework, some are obsessed with some kind of “healthy lifestyle,” some with “creativity,” some with “self-realization.” ", some people still have rags and boutiques with Louboutins in the foreground, who dream, like Lebedev, of traveling to all the countries of the world for some reason and lying on all the beaches, some just leave Russia (this is perhaps the top 1 reason for dating for last year - when the ladies find out that they are interested in IT, but when they find out that I love my country and am not going to leave anywhere, they set off). In general, they are all great, of course, but not what I want at the present moment in my life and for the future. On the advice of friends, acquaintances, and on the Internet, I learned that similar to the sought-after qualities are usually possessed by such ladies, whom we have called since the time of lurk RSP - i.e. formerly married ladies with children. I read and found out - yes, it really does seem like what I need. And in principle, this doesn’t really scare me, he eats, but if the children are small - up to 4-5 years old and preferably one (since I also want at least 2 of my own).

However, I ran into a problem: I don’t understand where to purposefully look for them, find them, or get to know them. The whole experience of meeting such girls who will definitely give you sex turned out to be completely unclaimed - in those places RSP are simply absent as a class, or they are present without serious goals. They say they sit at home and are busy with business, and if they go on Tinder, it’s only for one-night stands (which, of course, is very cool, but not my current task). And the approaches to them, as it turns out, are also different.

Well, actually this is the question: Where today (23rd year, autumn) in general to get acquainted with RSP, where do they hang out, how to find them, how to quickly find out if she has serious intentions for remarriage/having children and what approaches to use to get acquainted?
Thank you all for any useful information!