Relationship with a virgin ⇐ Pick Up

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Hello everyone.
A little about myself: 32 years old, divorced, has a child, lives with his mother in a new family for 6 years.
I work online, almost all the time at home. I earn average money, I don’t need anything, but I’m not luxurious either. A little about her, a 19-year-old 3rd year lawyer student (a virgin, in her words) moved to my city from the region.
She lives alone, she rents, when I asked what she lives on, at first her brother said she helped, and the scholarship, but at our last meeting she said that now the scholarship will be given once every six months and she is even thinking about moving in with her brother. He offered to help her get a job and get a job in a legal office, but there was no clear response.
She comes from a whole family, but recently she had a grief: her father died at the beginning of the war, she says that there is no such attachment to her mother and she feels that she was left alone, useless to anyone, I tried to support her. We met on the street, took the phone, went to the park, took a walk, took us home, at the next meeting we went back to the park where there were already kisses and hugs
But he behaves somehow dryly, not good night, not good morning, although often online.
I decided to ignore her for a couple of weeks, 0 pings from her. And recently I picked it up, helped my granny bring water and, as it turned out, it was from her entrance.
I wrote, is everything normal with your type? the answer is ok, and a couple more messages that don’t make much sense
I think, okay, the next day I’ll call and invite you to go to the store, I immediately said let’s go.
At the checkout she took the payment for her purchases herself, I decided to pay for them, to which she then repeatedly asked for my card to give Afterwards we sat in the yard and talked, she said that at that time it was a one-time event, she just wanted to relax (she said this at that moment when we were sitting in the park and chatting nicely) That I need a wife to stop walking, to which I said that I’ve had enough of a walk and want some kind of stability.
I asked what she does in her free time; she says sometimes she goes to a cafe with a friend
I tried to kiss her again, she moved away, but in the end she gave up, but it looked like fuck off)
She also said that you guys only need one thing, jokingly offered to introduce me to her friend, whose men often change (she is divorced with several children). At the same time, we discussed the topic of other people’s children, she says that there are no strangers and if two people love, they are ready to accept with a child, her father took in her mother with a child from her first marriage.
According to his position, he said that he would like to raise his own, at the extreme you can adopt, but if a woman destroyed her family, then it would be a shame, but in the end I decided to soften it and we agreed that there are no other people’s children) We agreed to meet on Friday, that is, yesterday. Because on weekends she has things to do with her classmates and go somewhere, when 2 weeks of being ignored included things to do too for a couple of days when I offered to meet. I called, she said that she was somewhere, I didn’t hear and she was already wanting to sleep. And the weekend will be busy as planned, she will go to the theater with her classmates. But you don’t need to go to the theater all day, and I wish I could find the time! What I decided to write about after the conversation :it looks like you have decided on your priorities, and that it’s funny to hear from her that a man should show attention himself (this was told to me after 2 weeks of being ignored) She: what are the priorities, I don’t have time to just go out I’m still silent, thinking about what to answer her and not be in a begging position. Something like, in my picture of the world, if a girl values ​​​​communication, she will strive to distribute her time so that she can see each other I understand that she is still young and she is interested in communicating with her peers, perhaps I am too old for her, although outwardly I look younger, as she says, I trained professionally in the gym, now I support her on the horizontal bars. The style also seems to be more or less) It turns out that she doesn’t take the initiative and doesn’t say no, being around I feel like she likes me, but she hesitates like a virgin))
There was a conversation about sex and he said we wouldn’t rush into it, even though we would like to. How to build communication with her, most likely she has someone as a friend from her classmates with whom she also communicates. This is just a guess. When we met, the phone was on silent) I also teased her that I did this myself when I was hiding something) I would be grateful for your advice!