30 years old virgin, what to do ⇐ Pick Up

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In general, it so happened that in 30 years I had no relationship, and of course, sex too. He moved with his mother to another city at the age of 14. I didn’t meet anyone, I sat at home all the time, playing with toys. Of course, I went outside; the only hobby I had was the gym. Now work, home, gym, walking, cycling - all my hobbies. Average income, 65-70k. Everything is fine, I take care of myself, etc. I have no friends, I live with my mother. I have colleagues, a female colleague with whom I communicate very well, I even visited her at home, but there was no sex. I got it into my head that girls only need cars, money, etc. I don’t have a car, I’m saving up, maybe I’ll buy one soon. Everyone asks when you will have a girl, the guy is normal, I say the time will come. And sometimes I get a hard time about this and only sport helps me to distract myself. I don’t even know what to do in this situation, I tried to get acquainted, but things didn’t go further than communication. Didn't even kiss. Most likely because maybe I’m boring for girls, because I don’t go to clubs, I don’t smoke or drink, and I’m also a lifestyle fan. So it goes. I walk in the evenings, in cafes, restaurants, I sit alone, where of course there are girls, but something slows me down and that’s all. I don’t go near them, I think they’ll send me away or merge.