Moral S&M? ⇐ General

[Anonymous]

Look. If a husband sits on a sex forum secretly from his wife, and then she takes his phone, sees his visits in the browser, starts a showdown and forces him to stop and delete everything. And he obeys. Isn't this dominance on the part of the wife and masochism on the part of the husband?
And vice versa. Let's say my husband is like this - give me your phone, I'll look... well, let's delete these contacts and your account on the sex forum! And she was like, “Okay, I’ll delete it.” And deletes it. Am I the only one who thinks this is female masochism and male dominance?
The topic is not offensive, just interesting to discuss.